The Mindset of Taking Control vs. Waiting for Good Fortune

Some people seem to have all the luck. They land the best opportunities, meet the right people, and achieve incredible success.

Meanwhile, others feel like they’re constantly struggling, waiting for their big break but it never comes.

So, what’s the real difference? Is success just a matter of luck, or does hard work play a bigger role?

The truth is, luck and hard work aren’t completely separate but the key difference is mindset. Do you believe success is something that happens to you (if you’re lucky enough), or do you believe it’s something you can create through effort and persistence?

The Illusion of Luck

It’s easy to look at successful people and assume they were just in the right place at the right time. But what we often don’t see is the years of effort, learning, and risk-taking that led to that moment.

Take any successful entrepreneur, artist, or leader, and if you dig into their backstory, you’ll find a pattern:

• They worked long before their “lucky break” happened.
• They failed, learned, and adjusted along the way.
• They created opportunities instead of waiting for them.

The Problem with Relying on Luck

If you’re waiting for a stroke of good fortune to change your life, you’re in a dangerous mindset. Here’s why:

1. You Give Up Control

Waiting for luck means you’re handing over control of your future to external forces. Instead of taking action, you become passive hoping that something happens instead of making it happen.

2. You Overlook Opportunities

When you think success is about luck, you may not even recognize the opportunities in front of you. Sometimes, “luck” looks like a small chance to step out of your comfort zone but if you don’t take it, you’ll never know where it could have led.

3. You Don’t Build Resilience

Hardships and failures are part of any journey. If you’re waiting for luck to carry you to success, setbacks will feel like dead ends instead of stepping stones. Resilient people keep pushing forward even when things don’t go as planned.

Hard Work: The Real Creator of “Luck”

The good news? You don’t have to rely on luck. You can create your own opportunities through hard work, persistence, and strategic thinking.

Here’s how:

1. Adopt a Growth Mindset

Psychologist Carol Dweck’s research on mindset shows that people with a growth mindset who believe abilities can be developed through effort—are far more successful than those with a fixed mindset, who believe talent and luck determine their fate.

• A fixed mindset says: “I’m just not lucky with opportunities.”
• A growth mindset says: “How can I prepare myself for the next opportunity?”

2. Take Action, Even When It’s Uncomfortable

Many people wait for the “perfect moment” to take action, but the truth is, perfect moments rarely come. The more action you take, the more chances you create for success.

• Want a better career? Start learning new skills today.
• Want more clients? Start reaching out, networking, and putting yourself out there.
• Want to grow your business? Test new strategies, refine what works, and keep going.

3. Focus on Consistency Over Perfection

Success isn’t about one lucky moment, it’s about consistent effort over time. The people who achieve their goals are the ones who keep showing up, even when progress feels slow.

Think of it like planting seeds. If you plant and nurture them regularly, over time, they will grow. If you wait for a “lucky” perfect garden to appear, you’ll be waiting forever.

4. Be Open to Opportunities (and Take Smart Risks)

“Lucky” people aren’t just lucky, they put themselves in situations where opportunities are more likely to appear. They go to events, start conversations, apply for roles, pitch their ideas, and take calculated risks.

If you never put yourself out there, how will opportunities find you?

5. Learn from Failure and Keep Adapting

One of the biggest differences between those who succeed and those who don’t is how they handle failure. Do they stop when they hit a setback? Or do they learn, adapt, and keep going?

Every failure brings a lesson. Those who use failures as stepping stones rather than reasons to give up ultimately create their own luck.

The Balance Between Luck and Hard Work

Does luck play some role in success? Sure, it can sometimes give people an unexpected advantage.

But here’s the secret: Hard work increases your luck.

The more you prepare, take action, and put yourself in the right places, the more “lucky” moments you’ll experience. In reality, those moments aren’t luck at all, they’re the result of your consistent effort paying off.

Your Mindset Determines Your Success

So, are you going to wait for luck to find you? Or are you going to take control of your success?

Take Action Today:

✅ Identify one goal you’ve been “waiting” on and take a small step toward it today.
✅ Shift your mindset, start seeing opportunities instead of obstacles.
✅ Stop waiting for the perfect moment and create your own luck through action.

The more you take control, the less you’ll need luck because you’ll already be on the path to success.

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